Graceful Parenting

Welcome Dear Friends:

Graceful Parenting is how God parents us, His children. God looks at all we do through the veil of the covering blood of Jesus. We are treated with what is truly Amazing Grace!


There are so many ideas about Christian parenting going around today: some very old and some very new. Wading through them all and measuring them one by one against the standard of God's Word, I found so much based on traditions that have arisen from misinterpreting the Bible or taking the Word out of context of the rest of Scripture. Tradition rather than truth...

What would happen if we sought to parent with the graceful heart of the Father? What would it look like if we followed the example of Jesus in the discipline and love he gave His disciples? What does the Bible truly say about the issues facing parents today?

And of course parenting isn't *all* quite so theological, so hopefully you'll find lots of other fun things to inspire you along the blessed gift of a path called parenting.

Happy Reading!

Saturday, June 16, 2007

Spanking part 1

Prior to having a child of our own, we always assumed we would spank our children. After all, isn’t that the Biblical way? I was secretly horrified at the thought of any Christian parent who did not spank their children. My children would be well-controlled, well disciplined. They would know how to behave and behave perfectly or else.

Shortly before our daughter Helena was born I was introduced to the concept of “gentle Christian parenting”. I was at first horrified as I said above. No “greasy grace” for me, thank you! Yet, as the time of her birth grew near, I just couldn’t stand the thought of inflicting physical pain on this baby who I had worked so hard to nourish for the last 9 months. But didn’t I have to? That’s when I began to really study out what the Bible had to say. Even with a BA in Theology and numerous Biblical exegisis (interpretation) classes under my belt I could not believe that what I was finding out was true. It was so different from what I had always been taught.

Most anyone Christian or not believes that the Bible says “spare the rod spoil the child” and that the Bible is the foundation for corporal punishment. However, this phrase comes not from the Bible, but rather from an old Victorian poem in which it was said tongue in cheek

Check out the next post to see the “rod” verses used to support corporal punishment.

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